I imagine it’s pretty much like any Western woman being married to a Muslim man.
Throughout it’s years of anti-Islam activism, PEGIDA Canada has had conversations with several different Canadian women who married Muslim men. Interestingly, they all follow a similar pattern.
All met their husbands in an educational setting, all of them converted to Islam, all of them left Islam after several years. This article is snippets of conversation that we have had with these women. They will remain anonymous for their protection.
“My ex is extremely well spoken and charismatic. I was drawn to him. I believe he sought me out in order to stay in Canada. He was from Tunisia on an education scholarship”
“I was looking for something, I had lost my (Christian) faith, Islam seemed to be a safe religion.”
“Initially, I enjoyed being ‘protected’, part of a family”
“He was charming, kind and attentive during the beginning of our relationship, I found out later that he was cheating on me the whole time.”
“We talked about him taking a second wife even before we were married, but I never thought he would do it.”
“The education about Islam was intense. It was non-stop. But it felt good, like I was working towards a higher purpose”
“It was required to wear a hijab as soon as it became serious. Not only hijab, but loose, modest clothing.”
“My parents didn’t know what to do. They supported me as best they could.”
“My husband was physically and verbally abusive after we got married. He also would have affairs, and didn’t care that I knew.”
“We were not legally married, just through Islamic law. It was a house ceremony with his friends. It felt really odd, because I didn’t know anyone. One of his friends ‘gave me away’”.
“Shortly after we were married, he told me he was going to get a second wife. I was devastated and angry. He said that’s the way it was, I couldn’t do anything about it.”
“He has been free to practice polygamy along with many other people here. With it being illegal you would think they would address it. I’m almost positive if it were Mormon’s doing it at the scale the Muslims are doing it, it would be international news.”
“We lived off social assistance for the most part. ‘Allah provided’ through the Canadian taxpayer”.
“I raised my children, and his other wife’s children. We seldom mixed with the Kaffir (unbeliever) “.
“We were taught that it was acceptable to Allah to lie (taqiya) and steal from the Kaffir”.
“I was not physically abused, but verbally and mentally abused. I used to cringe when he said my name”.
“Once, I shoved my sleeves up, because it was hot outside. I got two days of lectures for being immodest”.
“I wore a niqab for about a month, but I couldn’t stand it. I started getting panic attacks and couldn’t breath”.
“Once when I went outside without my hijab, he screamed at me while I sat in my car. I was so scared, I peed my pants”.
“He told me I had to have an ‘ugly’ voice when I answered the phone so I wouldn’t tempt someone. If I stood at a window without my hijab on, I was given a lecture on modesty. He said it was like going outside without clothes on”.
“Some of my ‘sisters’ had husbands who would tie their kids up, and smack the bottom of their feet when they misbehaved”.
“My husband said he provided food and clothing for me, it was enough. I should be content. I felt like a dog”.
“When I wore hijab, I tended to be kind of judgmental about women who did not. It was essential to censure women who did not”.
“He worshipped his mother, and she hated me”.
“He took his new wife on honeymoon in a different country while I stayed home, taking care of our children”.
“He also took advantage of a program for low income citizens to pay for post secondary education. He ended up getting a degree in sharia law from a university in Egypt. Like literally, the Canadian government paid him to get this.”
“My lawyer compared him to Charles Manson”.
“I was called stupid for expressing misgivings about things”.
“I felt like I was going crazy, and then I felt guilty for that, thinking I wasn’t praying enough, or was not good enough”
“I know not all Muslim marriages are like this, I have friends who have good marriages”.
“I felt like I was going to have a nervous breakdown, I couldn’t take it anymore”.
“My kids are being torn. He is teaching them his way”.
“I don’t want my kids to be like that! My son disrespects me, says his dad says I am nothing”.
“I had to tell my kids to lie to their grandparents, my parents about things we were taught, because I knew it would upset them”.
“I’m terrified that he will take my kids to his country of origin”.
“I had a restraining order on him, but now that it’s done, I am afraid.”
“When he has visitation with his kids, I am so afraid he will leave the country, and I won’t see them again”.
“Get out. There is help out there”.
What we can take from these stories is that these men know what they are looking for. They know who to target, and they know how to manipulate, shame, oppress and dominate.
Many of these women move to another country with their children, because they are fearful their husbands will take their children, as in sharia, the children belong to the father. Muslim men are about control. Control over women, in their marriage, control in politics and control in religion.
The abusive husbands above are ‘good Muslims’ as required by the Quran and the example set my Mohammad. The women are naiive and ignorant, swept away by the men and their lies. There is no escape but to leave, with no forwarding address…and those Muslims commenting her are either ignorant of their own ‘holy book’ or are simply lying to protect the Cult. Any Infidel who converts – especially after 9/11 – is ignorant or stupid – or both. This is a battle of Civilizations…and of Good VS Evil – God vs Satan or his demon. “Fight the Jihad until the World bows down to Allah” …”It is the duty of every good Muslim to fight the Jihad, until the World bows down to Allah” – Quran.
Poetic Justice?
Any woman who marries a Muslim especially when he wants to stay in her country is naive and a fool. I knew of a woman who married a Muslim, he made her change her first name, wear their prison garb, her girls were educated in his religion. She wasn’t allowed friends from prior life, he allowed her one friend whom he admired because she had boys. He was a doctor and didn’t know that the man determines the sex of the children. Later on she tried to leave he then told her he would take the girls and marry them to older men in Pakistan. Later she took her first name back and I think she left as the girls were older and totally brainwashed in the Satanic Cult. I felt so sorry for her because her life was ruined as the girls were turned against her. There are exceptions however, they’re few and far in between. An Arab Christian friend told me once she and a friend were visiting Tunisia and they didn’t speak Arabic then but they both were fluent, they took a camel ride and listened to the men talking about how stupid the British tourists were, during their tirade they stated that a camel was more useful than a woman. The two women told the tourists about the garbage these men were spewing. Life is too short to waste your life marrying a Muslim. Beware of a wolf in sheep clothing.
This is typical Muzzie HUMOR. I say similar stuff all the time. Trust me, we don’t actually mean a word of it. It’s just Talk, nothing more.
None of you will understand Muzzie humor without active cultural immersion in Muslim culture. Here’s a crash course. Read up on stories related to one ” Naseeruddin Hodja” . One of the finest examples of Muzzie satire.
Trust me—it’s my usual BS.
The problem is moslame, that for humor to be funny it has to have the germ of truth to it and women are mistreated, even the believing woman, all over the islamic world.
Sorry Charlie. I can’t summon up one iota of sympathy for any woman stupid enough to even give the time of day to a muzzrat man, much less MARRY the lowlife.
If you’re imbecilic enough not to know they are the dregs of existence, then you’re the same dregs. Reproduction-which so often happens in marriage-is the last thing you should do. Please: Be really really dumb and CHILDLESS.
How are Muslim marriages different from whitey marriages? Or Hindoo marriages, or Chinese marriages?
We have similar fights, yelling matches, kids, and snoring partners.
It’s really no different.
The Perpetual MUSLIM DECEIVER.
You obviously don’t know what our marriages are like because you’ve never been in one. Free of abuse.
You are wrong.
We don’t believe that the woman is our property.
Except that Islam has a book that says it is okay to hit your wife so the pious ones act on it!
Quran (4:34) – “Men are the maintainers of women because Allah has made some of them to excel others and because they spend out of their property; the good women are therefore obedient, guarding the unseen as Allah has guarded; and (as to) those on whose part you fear desertion, admonish them, and leave them alone in the sleeping-places and beat them; then if they obey you, do not seek a way against them; surely Allah is High, Great.”
No other Religion or Ideology has a contemporary book that says to beat your wife for fearing what she ‘MIGHT’ do!
Polygamy, perhaps you’ve heard of it under you islamic rock?
Many has bees aid here already so to summarize the differences to western christian marriages in short:
– religiously sanctioned wife/wives beating, even for small infractions
– religiously sanctioned polygamy
– wives/women possessing half a brain of males and their testimony being 4 times less of value
– no divorce without male consent whereas males can easily divorce any time
– divorced women having no recourse
– off-springs being sole custodial property of their fathers and their clans
– women to be veiled as soon as being outside
– women not to be allowed to leave home without their husbands’ consent
– wives subject to sexual rights (aka rape) of their husbands any time
– value of wives equal to cattle
– pedophilia – no age of consent
– adultery – with impunity for husbands but death worthy for wives
The list goes on …
Ghulam,
Granted, there are quite a few abusive relationships among western couples too. That said females (and kids, btw) are legally protected to an extend that they can fight back on equal terms aside from a mere physical one. Thus in actual practice their chance of escape is much higher than those of their Muslim counterparts.
Sharia law rather focuses on husbands dominating their wives who are often entirely dependent. But due to their legally egalitarian upbringing most western females simply can’t and won’t cope with that.
Where I live honor killings of spouses and female partners are pretty rampant for a western society’s standards. And about every one out of four to five women honor killed is an indigenous woman murdered by her (Muslim) partner.
Fact is that Muslim husbands or male partners are well over-represented in abusive relationships here.
Hartmut
Not all Muzzies live under Shariah law. Ghulam has mostly lived in the West, and now Singapore. Non-Muslim countries.
At least 60 percent of Muslims living in America aren’t religious in any sense of the word. The figures for Germany are similarly high.
Ghulam, if that’s the case, why do a majority of Muslims living in the West always say they’d prefer to live under sharia law here?
The reason we are living in America or any other non-Muslim country. We don’t want to live under Shariah law.
My lifestyle is very different from my Muzzie Neanderthal brethren in Pakistan. I drink alcohol, hardly pray and rarely make it to the mosque. That kind of irregularity would be pretty difficult to achieve in Iran, Pakistan or Saudi Arabia. India, not so much as a lot of Indian Muslims are pretty liberal (yours truly included).
It’s not in my interest to have Singapore convert to an Islamic state. Take notes, Jasmine (Jazz)
A lot of Muzzies living in America, UK or other Western countries think exactly like I do.
That doesn’t mean we stop practicing Islam. My wife wears a full chador and is very religious. But that’s her choice, I don’t like it at all. Even she wouldn’t want to travel to Pakistan. She gets along quite well with non-Muslims at her workplace.
A Muzzie can be religious and very anti-Shariah law at the same time. That’s what I’ve been trying to explain all of you from Day 1.
I believe you. But I posted a video awhile ago of a man-on-the-street interviewer in Minneapolis who asked dozens of Muslims living there if they would prefer to live un sharia law in America. At least 75% said ‘yes.’
Bonnie
There’s a world of difference between what they “say” and what they “want” for them and their families.
Ghulam “says” he loves a global Islamic Caliphate. Does he “want” to live in Saudi Arabia or ISIS territory?
OK, but let’s look at hundreds of years of history and all the countries that were not Islamic before Muslims began immigrating to them. Once the Muslim population gets to 50%, it doesn’t take long for them to become the majority, often by war and/or threats and violence against those who will not accept Islam. Look at Nigeria today, it is about 50 – 50 Christian and Muslim. Yet virtually all the violence we read about is Muslim against Christian. South Sudan was created because of all the violence against non-Muslims/Christians in Sudan.
Good question, this is simply bigotry. Striving to take advantage of living standards in western Judeo-Christian societies but at the same time for their conversion into a sort of hell hole they came from.
Totally illogical.
I will admit there are exceptions but that won’t alter the rule itself.
Especially the majority of those who (for the most part illegally) entered the west since 2015 brought their medieval culture of honor violence and misogyny with them. You can lure men out of a bush but hardly take the bush out of men.
We can feel this woman’s pain. Hope she has escaped and returned to freedom. But because of the children, this is unlikely. They tie her to him. In the US one parent cannot take a child out of the country without the other parent’s consent (although that could be forged). Very sad. Thanks for the book recommendation.
“Just A Child: Britain’s Biggest Child Abuse Scandal Exposed,” by Sammy Woodhouse, one of the abused Rotherham girls, is also worth reading.
Trying to talk them out of it does not work. These guys show up at a convenient time in these women’s lives, they present themselves as quite charming, they hide their true personality. Often, libido is a binding factor. And many have a lightly tinted skin, smooth and hairless, except for the head. All one can do is warn them, give them a list of what to expect, and leave.
I knew this young woman(20 something infidel) who mentioned to me one day(about 10 years ago) she was going to marry her Muslim boyfriend from Morocco (who was attending a local college). She mentioned that he wasn’t asking her to convert. That’s a red flag for sure, thought I. I was tempted to tell her to run for the hills but I figured I would be wasting my breath. About a year after the marriage, he dumps her and moves to the big city(Toronto). She realized he just used her to get to stay in the country. I could have told her that earlier but like I said, I would have been wasting my breath. Since then she has a very low opinion of Islam. However she learned a valuable lesson. She is much less naive now.
CG, lessons learned the hard way are the most effective ones.
There’s a woman I use to know, I would see her twice a year at the mall or downtown. We had short discussions. Last time I saw her, she told me she was getting married with a muslim. I ask her if she had become a muslim and she said no. She told me he was putting pressure for her to convert but told me she was not going to do so. I haven’t seen her since that last discussion around 7 years ago.
These are two reviews from Muslims on the book: Before you say I do to a Muslim:
Reviewed in the United States on June 11, 2018
Very bad book. Do not waste your money!
This book is garbage!, she has no idea about what’s going on , it’s her sick mind and her opinion.
1.0 out of 5 stars Waste of Time, Full of Hate
Reviewed in the United States on February 25, 2015
Book is just an Muslim hating propaganda book. Calling Islam a “satanic ideology?” No, thank you.
Definitely not recommended.
I’m surprised this hate and satanic propaganda material is even allowed on Amazon.
Hitler would be proud.
Book: Before you say I do to a Muslim.
“Using the Qur’an and Hadiths as the main source….”
The Muslim reviewer on Amazon says:
I’m surprised this hate and satanic propaganda material is even allowed on Amazon.
As the book uses the Quran and Hadiths as the main source, the Muslim himself states that the Quran and Hadiths are HATE and SATANIC materials.
The Muslim in his review says Hitler would be proud of the book.
In the Muslim Middle East, Hitler’s Mein Kampf is a big top seller. Muslim military fought with God hater Hitler and Hitler’s God hater Nazis and slaughtered with ferocious savagery Jews and non Jews.
CORRECTION: I should have added the book was Reviewed on Amazon.
The real blame for this circus of brainwashed fools can be mostly laid at the feet of our leftist educational institutional systems and a government who’ve all been reinforcing & sponsoring these leftist brainwashing education institutions, which are all hiding the true historical facts of the crussades versus the Ottoman empire & truth by failing to educate the real history of the world: particularly that of pislam, so no wonder that 🇨🇦‘s, North Americans & most of the western worlds citizens in general have become so uneducated & gullible over these past 4-5 decades on this subject, that it’s sickening to see some of these brainwashed folks literally fending & fighting for the fatal cause of the religion of pieces, war, bloodshed & kufhars genocide!
I looked up the book on Amazon. There are only a few reviews. The majority of the reviews are very positive. Some urge parents to buy the book for their daughters.
This is one review from April 2015. I wonder if she married her Muslim boyfriend???
1.0 out of 5 stars Very bad book. Do not waste your money!
Reviewed in the United States on April 3, 2015
This book is garbage! I myself am I Western Christian women who is dating a Muslim Man. You are quoting the Koran without understanding what the words mean, you blame the religion on the closed minded culture of the Middle East, and blame the religion on the actions of abusive men.
There are abusive men all over the world! How come when a christian man beats his wife nobody blames the religion?
I’m sorry for your bad experiences but I feel you are taking that anger and putting out hatred which is not what the bible teaches us.
My muslim boyfriend and family have been nothing but honest and open with me. They taught me everything depends on the family and how that person is raised. They always encourage me to educate myself and are there to answer any questions I have.
Women are held with the highest respect and are actually very spoiled. Western women are converting to Muslim by the hundreds and I understand why.
So shame on you and I will pray for this women who wrote this book. What I tell people who are really in question about the religion is go talk to a Muslim person and learn about the religion for yourself. Don’t blindly follow someone’s opinion because you don’t know what their intentions are.
The woman with the Muslim boyfriend says:
I’m sorry for your bad experiences but I feel you are taking that anger and putting out hatred which is not what the bible teaches us.
The writer of the book OBEYED one of the Ten Commandments of the HOLY ONE
YOU SHALL NOT BEAR FALSE WITNESS.
The writer spoke the TRUTH in LOVE and seeks with all of her heart to protect non Muslim innocents from a life of suffering.
She says:
There are abusive men all over the world! How come when a christian man beats his wife nobody blames the religion?
The answer: The Bible doesn’t tell Christian men to beat their wives. The Quran tells Muslim males to beat their wives. The Bible says that if Christian men don’t treat their wives properly, that God won’t answer the prayers of those men.
She says:
What I tell people who are really in question about the religion is go talk to a Muslim person and learn about the religion for yourself.
A very, very BAD suggestion. The Quran instructs Muslims to LIE to, and DECEIVE non Muslims. Robber Warlord Mohammad’s Quran calls the Muslim god, the greatest deceiver.
Linda, the operative words here are: “I am a Western Christian woman dating a Muslim man.” I’d like to hear from her after she is married to him for a few years.
Bonni, Yes, indeed! She would have a very different story to tell.
At the first college I attended was a woman who converted because her BF was a Muslim. She wore a hujab, then more. (You could still see her face.)
I’d love to ask her “So, how’d that turn out for you”?
It’s like being a piece of property with a hole to pump out more jihadists.
They must be doing something right, as their numbers are rising.
A man may marry four wives at a time,
And divorce them simply by quoting a rhyme.
A wife is a chattel to buy, beat, and use,
Obliged to submit, not allowed to refuse.
She may not go out of the house alone,
Or talk to a man who is not of her own.
Though a woman may testify all that she can
Her witness is rated half that of a man.
She’s only entitled to half the share
That a man will inherit if he is co-heir.
In a marriage that founders it’s always the same,
The man keeps the children, regardless of blame.
For a guilty verdict where rape is averred
There have to be four male witnesses heard.
From “Easy Guide to Sharia Law”
https://gatesofvienna.net/2020/04/easy-guide-to-sharia-law/
An family marrying a Muslim would be told by me to ‘Do it and you will never exist again with me, and never darken my doorway with your sad arse.’ Islam is garbage. A whore is better than the non-Muslim who freely marries Muslims.
Poor kids. Especially the daughters. When not the property of the father, they are the property of the husband. They know freedom here, but if they get stuck over there, may never get out.
Islam is the religion of the Muslims and the religion of pure evil. These women expose themselves to fire and soon or later get severely burnt.
Many Western women (and men) are easy to dupe. They live sheltered lives which leads to gullibility and too much forgiveness.
And yet, here you are, playing both sides of the fence again.
It’s become rather tiring and oh-so predictable.
All right….it’s back to the old profile now.
So tell me, Bubba. What drink did you have today?
Exactly; I’ll second your opinion on Ghulam! 👍
His poor pislam soul is csught between two religious teachings and he can’t make up his mind of which one to choose out of fear of repurcussions from that one statanic camp! Choice is easy though; liberation to the true God or submission to satan!
I cry BULLSHIT…
It ain’t that they’re “easy to dupe”…it’s more the fact that we’re afraid to challenge the scum that Muslims are and represent, because we are brainwashed into thinking we can’t confront the motherfuckers head on because we will be called racists, or Islamophobe’s, by imbeciles in our government{s} that are the type that would vote for a walking cadaver like Joe Biden.
This being said, it astounds the shit outta me at times how vulnerable some women can be when it comes to some men…any man, not just Muslim men.
I believe it IS a man’s world, and probably will continue to be so, and to be honest, at times, I wouldn’t want to be a woman living in it. Add to that the hideous patriarchal, sick, insidious way Islam is structured, what non Muslim woman in her right mind would entertain, for even a Nano second, saddling up with one of those lunatics??
Methinks it’s very similar to how those scum of the earth, PIMPS, operate…the know how to take full advantage of vulnerable women.