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Finally, a Chubby Muslim Convert Girl story with a happy ending
I know it must seem like torture watching the videos here from Chubby Muslim Convert Girls who have chosen a lifestyle with ominous implications. Today, I am pleased to present the real life story of Melanie, who was very young when she chose to become a Muslim…then chose not to…and lived to tell about it.
In 1992 I was an idealistic college student looking for meaning in my life and had met several Muslim students at my university. After many conversations about how Islam really treats women well and getting the implication that I would not have to compete physically, I started looking into conversion.
I have a fairly common (undiagnosed at that time) hormone imbalance which makes me gain weight easily and instead of trying to eat healthier and exercise I took the easy way out and joined a religious organization that didn’t empasize looks (or so I thought). I can honestly say that this was one of the reasons that I converted- that and I wanted to shock my rather conservative grandparents who raised me.
A few months after my conversion I was found a husband by a member of the mosque leadership who had a fairly lucrative side job arranging marriages between convert women and Muslim men who were short on time on a student visa and needed to get married to stay in the US and continue their educations. I honestly believe that if I had not gotten married that I would have tired of the ridiculous rules and dress code and bailed years earlier.
The abuse began almost immediatly after I helped my new husband apply for a green card (a month after the wedding). I made excuse after excuse for him- not only was he physically and verbally abusive he often kept me without food or supplies, I didn’t have a car so I wasn’t able to go and get anything.
Other women I knew had the same treatment from their husbands, one lady with a young daughter with chronic health issues was also left without food in the house and incognito from her husband as he travelled extensively propagating Islam. Others faced serious physical abuse from husbands over things as small as rearranged furnature or burned dinner.
In a few step-family situations step-daughters were married off at the youngest possible age due to the stupid gender apartheid rules and faced being raped repeatedly by an older “husband.” One of these girls was only 12 years old when she reached enough development to be married to a man 10 years her senior. I was told that it was better for a girl to start her period in her husband’s home rather than in her father’s.
I endured the abuse figuring that it would be better to have a man in my life than to be alone.
You have mentioned that many of the women who convert to Islam are either heavy or otherwise unattractive. Unfortunately this is true, and I can say from experience that heavy women will put up with abuse or other treatment that other women will not stand for.
Many “cupid converts” were not heavy when they married their husbands but abusive treatment and lack of outside stimulation caused them to turn to food for comfort. Also the restrictions placed on women often keep them from being able to exercise.
Luckily for me I didn’t have any children with my abusive ex, and after he left for his second trip to his home country without me I filed for divorce. After the divorce I began to work on myself and was diagnosed with polycyctic ovarian syndrome and got the proper treatment and lost about 60 pounds.
I am now remarried with two young children. I’m not the prettiest woman out there or anywhere near the thinnest, but I am healthy, exercise and raise my kids. Many people say that I look better at 40 than I did at 20 and I learned that taking care of myself is more important than following an abusive and restrictive belief system.
I returned to Christianity and pray daily for women who are stuck in the same situation that I was.
Hopefully my story will help someone else. If any Muslim women read this, please understand that you CAN leave and you don’t deserve any of the abuse that you are getting.
Thank you, Melanie, for having the courage to share your story with us and tens of thousands of women around the world who visit BNI everyday. We are so happy you were able to turn your life around and live happily every after. God Bless You.
dear sister i am sorry you had to face such abuse but please dont judge islam by muslims… we humans are imperfect but our religion is pure and HAQQ.. it is the Truth which Allah (God) bestowed us with so that we can achieve greater good here in the world toO and in after life too. u chose religion for the wrong reason u chose it to protect yourself from other people comments and judgements. Quran doesnt order muslim males to beat their wives it orders them to treat women with kindness, compassion and mercy but we muslims are not following it like it should be followed and due to the mistakes of some morally corrupt people who claim themselves muslims Islam is framed in a wrong light. Islam preaches peace and brotherhood and the best form of jiaad is jihaad bin nafs which means to fight with your own inner demons and say NO to temptations and evil stuff! Allah is our Creator and to HIM we have to return and hazrat Muhammad P.B.U.H is the last messenger of God.
Evajaved, understand you this so you will be perfectly clear as to our motives. We do not “judge islam by muslims,” we judge islam by the character of it’s founder, it’s inventor, muhammad (piss be upon him) because he is the model, the example all muslims are to emulate in their lives. Muslims are the branches, muhammad, the root, the root of evil.
Heather, when islam and muslims and that satanic ideology no longer murder children, honor kill daughters, and no longer stone and murder women who have been raped, while the rapist brags about his “conquest, THEN, and ONLY then, will islam and muslims be considered for respect by the rest of the world. NOT UNTIL !!
And Ms BNI is totally correct. We have studied your ideology. And we find it satanic, and below the level of gutter sewage.
And people like you are full of knee-jerk ignorance of islam and muslims, and obviously know next to nothing of it. You are projecting your own subjective views about religion, assuming they’re all spreading the same basic message, and hence, the differences are very minor. You couldn’t be further from the truth and your ignorance shows. It shows how little you have studied islam so you take for granted all the willy nilly platitudes of the political left and the muslims themselves.
A little advice, read the quran, the hadiths and the sira for yourself before you go off spouting nonsense you know nothing about. You are most naive. Study islam from it’s own source, the books listed above.
Too bad you are so ignorant….Their quran…the un-holy book of Islam says to beat their wives. It is not seen as a nasty cowardly thing for a man to do.
I pity you…you don’t even have the intelligence of a gnat to understand any of the threats Islam poses to you. I’ll assume you are a woman. I will assume you like to be treated as a sex slave, second hand human, with no say in anything. If you opened your mouth to berate the man like you did here to us all…he would have back handed you a few times so you would know your place!
I am so happy to hear that and sorry for all the abuse she had to deal with before she could leave her bad and cruel husbund and that awful “so called religion”.
I happy end story from real life and may she continue that life.
Europe is still racist, xenophobic and Islamophobic. It is unable to forget and forgive the siege of Vienna in 1683.
I fully understand the FEAR & THE INFERIORITY COMPLEX Factor among some Christians / Jews & the Hindu Groups/Individuals when dealing with the subject of ISLAM.
Today the followers of All the Religions in the World are talking Only about ISLAM, because, it is understandable that You will only talk about SOMETHING WHICH IS TRULY HUGE / GIGANTIC & TREMENDOUSLY SUCCESSFUL, when compared to
ALL the other religions.
We will NEVER like to discuss about anything which is INSIGNIFICANT, but ISLAM
IS HUGELY SIGNIFICANT as the Fastest Growing Religion in the entire World, not
only Europe or America or Africa or Asia or Australia. ISLAM as a religion is Growing
Everywhere, by the Grace of the Almighty Allah.
This is not there in the case of other religions, because THEY ARE ALL OBSOLETE NOW. Only ISLAM is the One and Only LIVE/TRUE religion in this World, hence SPREADING.
There is a tremendous CAMPAIGN GOING AROUND THE WORLD TO DEMONISE ISLAM to put a STOP ON ITS GROWTH.
Please do not Demonise ISLAM, Read the Noble Quran to understand what ISLAM really is.
FUCK OFF you inbreed Pedophile worshipping human scum. I can sit here and tell you what I think of your comment but I wont as we here on BNI arent pod scum like you with your common male tiny penis syndrome. We dont believe what youve written and one word comes to mind “Taquiyya”. So you cant fool us. Go and crawl back into the Bagheads hole you came out of. My hatred for your kind grows on a daily basis and if I could spit in your inbred face right now I would you peice of Moslem pig shit!!!!!!
Iftikar, are you still spewing your Taqiyya and your filth all over this blog???
ALL OF US REGULAR READERS know who and what you are, you spawn of hell !
You say, “Please do not Demonise ISLAM, Read the Noble Quran to understand what ISLAM really is. ”
What a crock of sh*t that is~! Surah 8:12 tells FULLY what you inbred chits think of the non-mozlem world. Go to any video on You Tube and listen to any Imam and anyone with two brain cells to rub together will KNOW you are a lying, deceiving sack of sh*t.
The only way islam is spreading is through the sword and through violence and hatred of humankind. CRAP !! You A$$e$ can’t even keep from killing yourselves because one tribe accuses another tribe of “Not being muslim enough!”
I am TRULY thankful that Ms BNI permits you to post, that you can show the world what a filthy, mangy shi&&y thing / ideology islam is. And for your information, there are MILLIONS leaving islam month by month by month, for you are NOT the fastest growing religion in the world !! Not by a long shot.
That which is gained through theft and fraud is quickly lost, iftikar,,, and you are one of the biggest frauds to post on this blog.
~ ~ G F ~ ~
Thank You, AussieHels,,,
Wait until some of the Regulars get hold of him, AusieHels,,, Dajjal, Cranky, Pink, Just to name a few,,, and Randy will have a ball, should he so choose, but he’s a bit busy at this time.
We are learning from him, odd as that sounds, but when one has a foot on the ladder of knowledge, the stench of putrefaction is quite apparent ! And that is all Islam is – Putrefaction, and Stagnation,,, and they STINK !! !!
Inferiority complex??
Okay,listen up and listen good, musffar…
Christiniaty predates islam, by a good span, and thus should be accorded some serious respect as the Elder religion, islam is barely a spoiled toddler given to monstrous tantrums in comparison.
That said, Paganism, is even more ancient, going back to before the last Ice Age, and indeed te Abrahamic faiths wouldn’t exist were it not for Paganism.
Instead of respect you denounce and despise us, the Elder faiths.
Problem is this:
Paganism has always been and shall always be, and we stand with Christians, Jews and the other faiths against islam–because islam is a crime against Humanity, the Human spirit, Human intellect and Human destiny.
Try to wipe us out again, and it’ll be like fighting the oceans and wind, and we will ensure the preservation of the other faiths, to be sure they can not be exterminated by islam.
Christians and Jews are tolerant of islam–we’re not. We remember the purges and that islam has never stopped trying to eradicate us. Natural selection, we’re a lot smarter, wiser and better than our ancestors.
islam renders nothing obsolete, as it’s a wholly false faith, a cult and criminal organization, brought about by a power-hungry monster of a Human being, mohammed was no prophet, he was at BEST a false-prophet, a liar, deceiver, a war-criminal and a truly vile and despicable example of how a Human should never allow one’s self to become.
islam, has as much chance of rendering the other faiths obsolete as does a plastic model of a Model T in making modern cars obsolete.
islam is a joke, and it’s a laughingstock, at best. It thinks so highly of itself, yet it’s the biggest threat to Humanity there ever has been. That sickening arrogance and conceit is undeserved and unearned by islam and muslims.
islam is so full of flaws, and counter-good, such as it’s ‘Doctrine of Lies’ that even Satanists find it sickeningly awful.
Yes, islam is spreading, by gun and blade, extortion, trickery and deceit. It spreads in the same manner of pathology as Cancer, and is just as inimical and unpleasant.
Also, don’t buy the saudi-financed hype–saudi arabi has been spending a LOT of $$ in the PR campaign that islam is the ‘fastest growing religion on earth’ when it’s not. For every 100 that join islam, about 1000 leave it.
Also, no faith can ever call itself ‘of peace’ when it threatens to kill it’s followers for leaving. islam is hypocritic, deceitful, and one colossal Lie; Projections show that islam will not survive to 2050, and the ‘islamic surge’ is a sharply-narrow spike, that’ll very soon be followed by a sharp, and terminal, drop-off.
Also this, islam refers to it’s/allahs followers as ‘slaves’…a very intriguing insight into islam’s true nature, and a very good reason to avoid it.
allah is NOT a deity, allah is nothing more than a phantasm dreamt up by mohammed-the-deviant to intimidate and scare his followers, appropriate as he was a megalomaniac and possibly even schizophrenic, as well as violently psychotic, Gynophobic and a deeply-closetted and self-despising homosexual. He was known to be a pedorast after all.
allah was nothing more than a mechanism by which mohammed-the-abomination could contrive very convenient ‘revelations’ that always fir exactly what he wanted.
In literature, that’s called ‘deus ex machina’ and it’s a cheap trick to get out of a tight spot.
allah is to be denounced, disavowed, and held up as a classic example of a wholly false deity.
Many here have read the quran, hadith, traditions and such…I have, to be sure.
I have never in my life encountered a body of work so driven and enabling of Humanity’s darker side and hatred than the islamic materials.
They are nothing but despicable hate-literature and criminal incitement dressed in a pretty cover.
islam demonizes itself–all faiths are judged by the actions of their followers and adherents—look at what muslims are doing all across the world today, and now consider how islam is assessed by that evidence in the form of bloodshed, insanity, slavery, atrocity, etc..
Now, as to islam’s views on women–there is NOTHING in islam for women that is good. islam is a Gynocaust, and we’re not going to kow to shariah and give up all we’ve worked for regarding our rights and freedoms.
We’ll see islam expunged from the earth first.
Our municipality has made islam Outlawed under hate-literature and racketerring/criminal organization laws as there’s mountains of evidence and analysis to show that islam is catastrophically damaging to civilized communities.
shariah, outlawed also. In a short span, it’ll be impossible to be a muslim here and I’m working to gt other municipalties to start doing the same before they get swallowed up by islam’s cancer-like metastasization.
It’s not fear or an inferiority complex that has folks everywhere talking about Islam. It’s about how utterly savage and barbaric you 7th century troglodytes are. When are you going to finally grow up and come into the 21st century?
Islam is not spreading in Canada….matter of factly….Ilamamentians are being shipped out for lying on their immigration papers, for being involved with Hamas, hezbollah, al-qaida…etcetera.
Good will always prevail over evil and your beliefs come directly from satan’s mouth to moHAMMheads ears. Christianity was around many centuries before your delusional mohammhead was and it will be long after you.
No one demonizes Islam…..you and your ilk are doing that all by yourselves. Thank you for showing others just how much you like killing of innocents, the abuse of young children and women. BTW….only a coward or sick pervert gets his jollies by hitting or abusing children.
I truly think you all have an inferitority complex …..must be due to having small cox as a child. Being in-bred does nothing for the intelligent quotient either!
Most here have read the Quran and we do know and understand your satanic cult quite well. Now please go attend to your goat…I can hear her bleeting for you.
Haji IfTICKhar Ahmad of the “esteemed” London School of Islamics (Should be called, London School for Inbred Islamotards). Most Sublime Sultan of Spam, most Kourageous Khan of Kookyness, and Grand Vector of Lymes Disease and Rocky Mountain Spotted Fever. Shall I continue? I knew you would be back to shill for the vile cult of muhammad. “Fastest Growing Religion in the entire World” [sic x 4] huh? I believe the emminent and esteemed Ali Sina once told you a while back that comparatively, Falun Gong is growing faster than islam. He also told you this, and I quote, “…..you said one thing that I wholeheartedly agree with (take note Heather) and that is “read the Quran”. I did, and I left Islam after that. I urge everyone to read that book, as you said, with an open mind. No one can write a book more damaging to Islam than the Quran. All we need to discredit Islam is to quote the Quran and the Hadith.”
….Ali Sina
Tell me Iftikhar, after all these years, are you still familiar with Article 9 of the European Commission of Human Rights? Remember Ahmad v United Kingdom? You’ve got a real handle on UK Labour Law don’t you? You lost that one on appeal about 30 some years ago. Imagine that, you Iftikhar, used to teach at a Catholic school. A Roman Catholic school! Then you sued that school because you wanted to take time away from your students and go pray at the masjid (mosque) on fridays. Damn dude, judging from the size of the shit stain on your balding head, haven’t you been banging it on the prayer rug a bit too much? Oh yes, I have two photos of you on my laptop and i’m most generous to my friends here. I’m sure they’re curious.
Back to the subject at hand. Could your passion for separate taxpayer-financed schools for muslim students, taught by muslim teachers in the UK have a somewhat less than noble root, something rather subjective in nature? Something somewhat personal despite the stated intentions of being better for the muslim students?
Hmmmm.
One more question Sir Spamalot, are you not aware that Spam is made from pork byproducts?
You are so right mom5 it all came together with me and I didn’t have the ability to know that I was being taken for a ride. My ex barely concealed his disgust and contempt for me and mocked me when I tried to do something about my weight. I was forbidden from going to a gym or to even walk in the neighborhood so just about anything I could do was out of the question. It is true that Muslim men tend to dress and groom themselves in very attractive ways and a girl who is more used to ridicule by men would be extremely flattered by any attention, especially by a relatively good looking man. If I had managed to try to dress a little better, lose weight and carry myself a little better this whole episode would not have happened. As much as girls want to believe that their Muslim man will be different and their story will not end in heartbreak it is better to run to the nearest exit before even the first date.
Melanie, A few of us have been over the mountain, down the river, and across the plains, speaking in terms of Life Experience. You, yourself, have as well, and we are all proud of you and what you have accomplished, and what you ARE accomplishing. Now, may I, in all respect and honor, give you a piece of advice, and to all the others in your situation???
Today’s calendar reads 23 October, 2012. Yesterday is a day that has passed into the flames of History, and tomorrow is the 24th of October,,, but is NOT HERE YET !
Live NOW !! Today !!,,, and you’re tomorrow and tomorrows will be the richer for the groundwork you have laid forth today.
Regret and guilt are useless emotions. Why??? Because YOU DID THE BEST YOU COULD, with the knowledge, experience, understanding and wisdom you had, AT THAT TIME AND PLACE. Whether you would do the same thing again, in similar circumstances NOW, is a totally different matter. LIVE YOUR LIFE NOW.
Teach your story NOW. But do not live in the past – To do so ruins your NOW, and also your Tomorrow.
Leave the EXPERIENCE behind, and take from it ONLY the lessons that it had to teach you, that you could teach others, even as you have us, here, in this blog.
And Melanie, Please ALWAYS remember two things, first and Foremost
1. ) You are a Dearly Loved Creation of G-D, no matter how you perceive the Supreme Deity.
2. ) You were Created in the Image of G-d, and in such, AS SUCH, you are a very integral part of G-D, and His Creation. The Tapestry of Creation is not complete without you.
May G-D’s richest Blessings rain upon you, and give you Peace
Blessed Be,,,
~ ~ G F ~ ~
good for you Melanie! i am so glad that you were able to leave Islam and become really happy. young girls must be empowered that they don’t need a man in their lives to succeed or be happy
I always held in my opinion that for an American woman to convert, to marry a muslim man, she had to have all the variables that Melanie possessed at the time.
Her age, her lack of confidence in her own looks, her naivete, and of course being
pursued by someone who clearly knew he would have to put in some effort if he was going to get himself hitched quickly. She was raised by her aged grandparents. Which was also another variable.
These Muslim scum bags are predators. The truth is that they need to get hitched to secure their status in America. I tell my daughters all the time, stay away from Muslime men. Muslime men try to dress nice, they try to be so suave and debonair, they are the boys at the local Verizon store. They are all so well manicured, too much cologne, and I have watched as they swoon over the young American girls in my town.
I tell my daughters to tell their friends that they are dangerous. Do not trust them, don’t fall for their cunning ways. I tell my daughters guy friends that they are snakes,
that they are not their friends.
The Turkish Muslime men down at the gas station down the road, they sell alcohol to underage boys, I’ve watched them do it. The other day I saw a young kid with a big white truck pull up while I was getting gas, the Turkish Muslim kid serving me, ran up to the truck and handed this young white kid a little object in his hand.
The white kid shouted out his truck window, after he looked at what I thought was a small ball looking thing, to the Muslim kid….thanks, but are you trying to kill me or something.
I felt like yelling at the kid, yeah you shit for brains, but then the Muslim kid said in his broken english, “I’m good to you ha? I take care of you!” and then the white kid sped off.
I went right to a man I know in my community who has been watching this gas station. I informed him that this station, whom he originally knew was selling to minors, is STILL selling to minors, but not just herbs that kill, but beer and even other substances.
This is what the filth of Islam is bringing to American.
So schools teach that Islam is good, in our schools, and then ignorant, naive youth, engage them at local gas stations and kiosks and are lured into liking them for drugs and alcohol.
God help our futue.
Lastly, Melanie, with all the you know, all you experienced, one day, if you are up to the task, you should consider being part of the voice that helps young girls out of Islam. Thank you for your story. I am so happy that you got out safely and that
you are back on the side of your heritage, stronger and more aware!
Saxon- I was really really brainwashed by that time!
There are more like me out there, most of us are really quiet about what happened. I still have family who don’t want much to do with me because of this episode and that really hurts. The worst part was that my grandparents feared reprisals from my ex for the last 20 years of their life and I promised them that I would not be public with my story until they passed away. I can never get the years back but I can go forward. Thanks for all the kind comments!
Koran 4:34 gives men the eternal right to whack the heck out of women. Koran 18.81 gives them the right to murder them. Sharia law has no punishment for a man who beats or murders his wife.
wonder how many more women like Melanie are out there ! she came back from the vast muslim abyss one can hope their are many more that will follow her lead . keep the lights on for them BNi it a dark world out there
Outstanding! Murder, however, for apostasy is not beyond a possibility. The other option for those trapped in a marriage with a Muslim might be to emulate Lorena Bobbitt.
Nice to hear of a happy ending like Melanies. She was lucky that she was not born a female into a Muzturd family. Melanie can walk away without the worry of weak limp dicked savages threatening her life as it goes for women of Muzturd origin whom are too scared to leave knowing they could be murdered for leaving a life of pure Hell on Earth. It just proves that silly non Muzloid girls should think twice about “rebelling” against their folk and Western values in spite convert to Shitslam. Most will end up in very sad horrible situations which will be difficult to get out of especially if they produce Muzloid offspring.
If our future daughter makes this mistake, one word from her that twitches my Maternal Instincts and the muzzie won’t have time to realize how much trouble he’s in.
I can be very nice, civilized and peaceful or I can be a worse monster than the Alien Queen in Alien vs. Predator.
If some muzloid twist ever hurts a child of mine, of any age, I’ll redefine terror for the limp-dick gynophobe.
Husband and I have NO living relatives at all–and we’ve burned a lot of time and $$ searching. Thus, our children will be Treasured, as they are a new Lineage, a new Beginning for our bloodlines.
I’ll be reasing them to understand that islam is dangerous, inimical and cancer-like, but no matter how well one tries to raise kids, impulsiveness can rear up–we were all teens ourselves, and we all know it as a Fact.
If any of my kids get snarled up in islam, I will take my children back, and plough under any dipwits stupid enough to get in the way.
This is a War, and I’ll fight it like one, especially if my kids are ever at risk and then I’ll fight like only a Mother can.
This must have taken place in a western civilized country because if this had happened in one of the 57 muslim hell holes, this innocent person would have been honour killed. Well done Melanie. We need to hear more positive and courageous stories such as this one. God bless Melanie and her family.
you are very lucky to still be with us…if you had gone to a Muslim country
the family would have used you as a prostitute to bring money and name to them.
Refusing to be a prostitute gets your head chopped of. Sharia law allows this.
I know how you felt. I felt it also for 16 years. I lived the same experience as you except I didn’t convert. Would never do that. Although my guy was a muslim, he was not devout. I was also a prisoner in the house having no way to travel outside for two years before I left him. Loads of verbal and psychological abuse and degradation although I am a very good looking woman (I am told). It starts slowly and gets worse with time to end up full blown violence and terror and rages. When you realize the situation you are in, it’s hard to get out of because you are in a state of shock. I was lucky to have other interests and a laptop in my life. This is what saved me.
I think any guy that was raised in a muslim family will behave this way towards women,
Susan…(HUG)
I’m so glad you got out without suffering some hideous fate, we all know how vicious they can be to women who ‘displease’ them (chip their fragile quasi-masculine egos).
islam, the problem is so huge just TRYING to keep up with the influx of daily atrocities is nearing the point where it’s impossible, and I’m not plugged into that many subscriptions…
But I think that says all that needs be said about islam, alongside testimony from you, Melanie and other survivors of muslim relationships.
You are an awesome, aware young lady, Melanie,,, And God Bless you for telling your story. Regular readers here know I believe that the change in islam will come through the efforts and demands of the women. That is the ONLY way I know that it will come about.
My Prayers with you, and my Blessings !
G F
I certainly hope the women do one day do make the changes as you mentioned and have the courage to fight back. Lets face it that fat ass old bag Hillary and the feminists of this world are doing jack shit to help!!
Well said!! And I ditto you with what you said to Melanie also. 🙂
islam, it took us how long to get to this level of equality and being taken seriously, and now the damned islamists think they’re gonna sweep all that away and lock us up in shariah?
Thank you Melanie for sharing your story which I know will help many others trapped in the similar situation. Wish you much happiness. Thanks BNI for the post.
evajaved says
dear sister i am sorry you had to face such abuse but please dont judge islam by muslims… we humans are imperfect but our religion is pure and HAQQ.. it is the Truth which Allah (God) bestowed us with so that we can achieve greater good here in the world toO and in after life too. u chose religion for the wrong reason u chose it to protect yourself from other people comments and judgements. Quran doesnt order muslim males to beat their wives it orders them to treat women with kindness, compassion and mercy but we muslims are not following it like it should be followed and due to the mistakes of some morally corrupt people who claim themselves muslims Islam is framed in a wrong light. Islam preaches peace and brotherhood and the best form of jiaad is jihaad bin nafs which means to fight with your own inner demons and say NO to temptations and evil stuff! Allah is our Creator and to HIM we have to return and hazrat Muhammad P.B.U.H is the last messenger of God.
randy63ism says
Evajaved, understand you this so you will be perfectly clear as to our motives. We do not “judge islam by muslims,” we judge islam by the character of it’s founder, it’s inventor, muhammad (piss be upon him) because he is the model, the example all muslims are to emulate in their lives. Muslims are the branches, muhammad, the root, the root of evil.
Heather says
I’m sorry for what happened to her. Spouse abuse knows no religion, no skin color, no language, no nationality, no sexual orientation.
You people are so full of hate for Islam and Muslims. I pity you.
BareNakedIslam says
Heather, nobody cares what you think.
Grouchy Fogie says
Heather, when islam and muslims and that satanic ideology no longer murder children, honor kill daughters, and no longer stone and murder women who have been raped, while the rapist brags about his “conquest, THEN, and ONLY then, will islam and muslims be considered for respect by the rest of the world. NOT UNTIL !!
And Ms BNI is totally correct. We have studied your ideology. And we find it satanic, and below the level of gutter sewage.
randy63ism says
And people like you are full of knee-jerk ignorance of islam and muslims, and obviously know next to nothing of it. You are projecting your own subjective views about religion, assuming they’re all spreading the same basic message, and hence, the differences are very minor. You couldn’t be further from the truth and your ignorance shows. It shows how little you have studied islam so you take for granted all the willy nilly platitudes of the political left and the muslims themselves.
A little advice, read the quran, the hadiths and the sira for yourself before you go off spouting nonsense you know nothing about. You are most naive. Study islam from it’s own source, the books listed above.
Redneck Dixie Warrior says
Heather…
Too bad you are so ignorant….Their quran…the un-holy book of Islam says to beat their wives. It is not seen as a nasty cowardly thing for a man to do.
I pity you…you don’t even have the intelligence of a gnat to understand any of the threats Islam poses to you. I’ll assume you are a woman. I will assume you like to be treated as a sex slave, second hand human, with no say in anything. If you opened your mouth to berate the man like you did here to us all…he would have back handed you a few times so you would know your place!
skep says
Good luck Melanie am happy you saw the light.
leolaeva says
I am so happy to hear that and sorry for all the abuse she had to deal with before she could leave her bad and cruel husbund and that awful “so called religion”.
I happy end story from real life and may she continue that life.
Iftikhar Ahmad says
Europe is still racist, xenophobic and Islamophobic. It is unable to forget and forgive the siege of Vienna in 1683.
I fully understand the FEAR & THE INFERIORITY COMPLEX Factor among some Christians / Jews & the Hindu Groups/Individuals when dealing with the subject of ISLAM.
Today the followers of All the Religions in the World are talking Only about ISLAM, because, it is understandable that You will only talk about SOMETHING WHICH IS TRULY HUGE / GIGANTIC & TREMENDOUSLY SUCCESSFUL, when compared to
ALL the other religions.
We will NEVER like to discuss about anything which is INSIGNIFICANT, but ISLAM
IS HUGELY SIGNIFICANT as the Fastest Growing Religion in the entire World, not
only Europe or America or Africa or Asia or Australia. ISLAM as a religion is Growing
Everywhere, by the Grace of the Almighty Allah.
This is not there in the case of other religions, because THEY ARE ALL OBSOLETE NOW. Only ISLAM is the One and Only LIVE/TRUE religion in this World, hence SPREADING.
There is a tremendous CAMPAIGN GOING AROUND THE WORLD TO DEMONISE ISLAM to put a STOP ON ITS GROWTH.
Please do not Demonise ISLAM, Read the Noble Quran to understand what ISLAM really is.
AussieHels says
FUCK OFF you inbreed Pedophile worshipping human scum. I can sit here and tell you what I think of your comment but I wont as we here on BNI arent pod scum like you with your common male tiny penis syndrome. We dont believe what youve written and one word comes to mind “Taquiyya”. So you cant fool us. Go and crawl back into the Bagheads hole you came out of. My hatred for your kind grows on a daily basis and if I could spit in your inbred face right now I would you peice of Moslem pig shit!!!!!!
Grouchy Fogie says
Iftikar, are you still spewing your Taqiyya and your filth all over this blog???
ALL OF US REGULAR READERS know who and what you are, you spawn of hell !
You say, “Please do not Demonise ISLAM, Read the Noble Quran to understand what ISLAM really is. ”
What a crock of sh*t that is~! Surah 8:12 tells FULLY what you inbred chits think of the non-mozlem world. Go to any video on You Tube and listen to any Imam and anyone with two brain cells to rub together will KNOW you are a lying, deceiving sack of sh*t.
The only way islam is spreading is through the sword and through violence and hatred of humankind. CRAP !! You A$$e$ can’t even keep from killing yourselves because one tribe accuses another tribe of “Not being muslim enough!”
I am TRULY thankful that Ms BNI permits you to post, that you can show the world what a filthy, mangy shi&&y thing / ideology islam is. And for your information, there are MILLIONS leaving islam month by month by month, for you are NOT the fastest growing religion in the world !! Not by a long shot.
That which is gained through theft and fraud is quickly lost, iftikar,,, and you are one of the biggest frauds to post on this blog.
~ ~ G F ~ ~
AussieHels says
Well said GF well said my friend 🙂 hope Bonni and other BNI’ers also tears this shit for brains, a new Muz-asshole too..
Grouchy Fogie says
Thank You, AussieHels,,,
Wait until some of the Regulars get hold of him, AusieHels,,, Dajjal, Cranky, Pink, Just to name a few,,, and Randy will have a ball, should he so choose, but he’s a bit busy at this time.
We are learning from him, odd as that sounds, but when one has a foot on the ladder of knowledge, the stench of putrefaction is quite apparent ! And that is all Islam is – Putrefaction, and Stagnation,,, and they STINK !! !!
Marlene Wilkins says
To you GF, AussieHels…I stand with you, the rest of the membership, and BNI.
Good comments also!!
Marlene Wilkins says
Inferiority complex??
Okay,listen up and listen good, musffar…
Christiniaty predates islam, by a good span, and thus should be accorded some serious respect as the Elder religion, islam is barely a spoiled toddler given to monstrous tantrums in comparison.
That said, Paganism, is even more ancient, going back to before the last Ice Age, and indeed te Abrahamic faiths wouldn’t exist were it not for Paganism.
Instead of respect you denounce and despise us, the Elder faiths.
Problem is this:
Paganism has always been and shall always be, and we stand with Christians, Jews and the other faiths against islam–because islam is a crime against Humanity, the Human spirit, Human intellect and Human destiny.
Try to wipe us out again, and it’ll be like fighting the oceans and wind, and we will ensure the preservation of the other faiths, to be sure they can not be exterminated by islam.
Christians and Jews are tolerant of islam–we’re not. We remember the purges and that islam has never stopped trying to eradicate us. Natural selection, we’re a lot smarter, wiser and better than our ancestors.
islam renders nothing obsolete, as it’s a wholly false faith, a cult and criminal organization, brought about by a power-hungry monster of a Human being, mohammed was no prophet, he was at BEST a false-prophet, a liar, deceiver, a war-criminal and a truly vile and despicable example of how a Human should never allow one’s self to become.
islam, has as much chance of rendering the other faiths obsolete as does a plastic model of a Model T in making modern cars obsolete.
islam is a joke, and it’s a laughingstock, at best. It thinks so highly of itself, yet it’s the biggest threat to Humanity there ever has been. That sickening arrogance and conceit is undeserved and unearned by islam and muslims.
islam is so full of flaws, and counter-good, such as it’s ‘Doctrine of Lies’ that even Satanists find it sickeningly awful.
Yes, islam is spreading, by gun and blade, extortion, trickery and deceit. It spreads in the same manner of pathology as Cancer, and is just as inimical and unpleasant.
Also, don’t buy the saudi-financed hype–saudi arabi has been spending a LOT of $$ in the PR campaign that islam is the ‘fastest growing religion on earth’ when it’s not. For every 100 that join islam, about 1000 leave it.
Also, no faith can ever call itself ‘of peace’ when it threatens to kill it’s followers for leaving. islam is hypocritic, deceitful, and one colossal Lie; Projections show that islam will not survive to 2050, and the ‘islamic surge’ is a sharply-narrow spike, that’ll very soon be followed by a sharp, and terminal, drop-off.
Also this, islam refers to it’s/allahs followers as ‘slaves’…a very intriguing insight into islam’s true nature, and a very good reason to avoid it.
allah is NOT a deity, allah is nothing more than a phantasm dreamt up by mohammed-the-deviant to intimidate and scare his followers, appropriate as he was a megalomaniac and possibly even schizophrenic, as well as violently psychotic, Gynophobic and a deeply-closetted and self-despising homosexual. He was known to be a pedorast after all.
allah was nothing more than a mechanism by which mohammed-the-abomination could contrive very convenient ‘revelations’ that always fir exactly what he wanted.
In literature, that’s called ‘deus ex machina’ and it’s a cheap trick to get out of a tight spot.
allah is to be denounced, disavowed, and held up as a classic example of a wholly false deity.
Many here have read the quran, hadith, traditions and such…I have, to be sure.
I have never in my life encountered a body of work so driven and enabling of Humanity’s darker side and hatred than the islamic materials.
They are nothing but despicable hate-literature and criminal incitement dressed in a pretty cover.
islam demonizes itself–all faiths are judged by the actions of their followers and adherents—look at what muslims are doing all across the world today, and now consider how islam is assessed by that evidence in the form of bloodshed, insanity, slavery, atrocity, etc..
Now, as to islam’s views on women–there is NOTHING in islam for women that is good. islam is a Gynocaust, and we’re not going to kow to shariah and give up all we’ve worked for regarding our rights and freedoms.
We’ll see islam expunged from the earth first.
Our municipality has made islam Outlawed under hate-literature and racketerring/criminal organization laws as there’s mountains of evidence and analysis to show that islam is catastrophically damaging to civilized communities.
shariah, outlawed also. In a short span, it’ll be impossible to be a muslim here and I’m working to gt other municipalties to start doing the same before they get swallowed up by islam’s cancer-like metastasization.
Marlene Wilkins says
Yes, we know all about his islam ‘spreads’….
Redneck Dixie Warrior says
Iftikar Islamamentian….
It’s not fear or an inferiority complex that has folks everywhere talking about Islam. It’s about how utterly savage and barbaric you 7th century troglodytes are. When are you going to finally grow up and come into the 21st century?
Islam is not spreading in Canada….matter of factly….Ilamamentians are being shipped out for lying on their immigration papers, for being involved with Hamas, hezbollah, al-qaida…etcetera.
Good will always prevail over evil and your beliefs come directly from satan’s mouth to moHAMMheads ears. Christianity was around many centuries before your delusional mohammhead was and it will be long after you.
No one demonizes Islam…..you and your ilk are doing that all by yourselves. Thank you for showing others just how much you like killing of innocents, the abuse of young children and women. BTW….only a coward or sick pervert gets his jollies by hitting or abusing children.
I truly think you all have an inferitority complex …..must be due to having small cox as a child. Being in-bred does nothing for the intelligent quotient either!
Most here have read the Quran and we do know and understand your satanic cult quite well. Now please go attend to your goat…I can hear her bleeting for you.
randy63ism says
Haji IfTICKhar Ahmad of the “esteemed” London School of Islamics (Should be called, London School for Inbred Islamotards). Most Sublime Sultan of Spam, most Kourageous Khan of Kookyness, and Grand Vector of Lymes Disease and Rocky Mountain Spotted Fever. Shall I continue? I knew you would be back to shill for the vile cult of muhammad. “Fastest Growing Religion in the entire World” [sic x 4] huh? I believe the emminent and esteemed Ali Sina once told you a while back that comparatively, Falun Gong is growing faster than islam. He also told you this, and I quote, “…..you said one thing that I wholeheartedly agree with (take note Heather) and that is “read the Quran”. I did, and I left Islam after that. I urge everyone to read that book, as you said, with an open mind. No one can write a book more damaging to Islam than the Quran. All we need to discredit Islam is to quote the Quran and the Hadith.”
….Ali Sina
Tell me Iftikhar, after all these years, are you still familiar with Article 9 of the European Commission of Human Rights? Remember Ahmad v United Kingdom? You’ve got a real handle on UK Labour Law don’t you? You lost that one on appeal about 30 some years ago. Imagine that, you Iftikhar, used to teach at a Catholic school. A Roman Catholic school! Then you sued that school because you wanted to take time away from your students and go pray at the masjid (mosque) on fridays. Damn dude, judging from the size of the shit stain on your balding head, haven’t you been banging it on the prayer rug a bit too much? Oh yes, I have two photos of you on my laptop and i’m most generous to my friends here. I’m sure they’re curious.
Back to the subject at hand. Could your passion for separate taxpayer-financed schools for muslim students, taught by muslim teachers in the UK have a somewhat less than noble root, something rather subjective in nature? Something somewhat personal despite the stated intentions of being better for the muslim students?
Hmmmm.
One more question Sir Spamalot, are you not aware that Spam is made from pork byproducts?
Didn’t think so. Must be the inbreeding. 😉
“Allahu Oinkbar!”
Chubee_ex_Muzz says
You are so right mom5 it all came together with me and I didn’t have the ability to know that I was being taken for a ride. My ex barely concealed his disgust and contempt for me and mocked me when I tried to do something about my weight. I was forbidden from going to a gym or to even walk in the neighborhood so just about anything I could do was out of the question. It is true that Muslim men tend to dress and groom themselves in very attractive ways and a girl who is more used to ridicule by men would be extremely flattered by any attention, especially by a relatively good looking man. If I had managed to try to dress a little better, lose weight and carry myself a little better this whole episode would not have happened. As much as girls want to believe that their Muslim man will be different and their story will not end in heartbreak it is better to run to the nearest exit before even the first date.
Grouchy Fogie says
Melanie, A few of us have been over the mountain, down the river, and across the plains, speaking in terms of Life Experience. You, yourself, have as well, and we are all proud of you and what you have accomplished, and what you ARE accomplishing. Now, may I, in all respect and honor, give you a piece of advice, and to all the others in your situation???
Today’s calendar reads 23 October, 2012. Yesterday is a day that has passed into the flames of History, and tomorrow is the 24th of October,,, but is NOT HERE YET !
Live NOW !! Today !!,,, and you’re tomorrow and tomorrows will be the richer for the groundwork you have laid forth today.
Regret and guilt are useless emotions. Why??? Because YOU DID THE BEST YOU COULD, with the knowledge, experience, understanding and wisdom you had, AT THAT TIME AND PLACE. Whether you would do the same thing again, in similar circumstances NOW, is a totally different matter. LIVE YOUR LIFE NOW.
Teach your story NOW. But do not live in the past – To do so ruins your NOW, and also your Tomorrow.
Leave the EXPERIENCE behind, and take from it ONLY the lessons that it had to teach you, that you could teach others, even as you have us, here, in this blog.
And Melanie, Please ALWAYS remember two things, first and Foremost
1. ) You are a Dearly Loved Creation of G-D, no matter how you perceive the Supreme Deity.
2. ) You were Created in the Image of G-d, and in such, AS SUCH, you are a very integral part of G-D, and His Creation. The Tapestry of Creation is not complete without you.
May G-D’s richest Blessings rain upon you, and give you Peace
Blessed Be,,,
~ ~ G F ~ ~
dragonfFIRE01 says
good for you Melanie! i am so glad that you were able to leave Islam and become really happy. young girls must be empowered that they don’t need a man in their lives to succeed or be happy
Beema says
I hope that now Melanie has seen the light she will take it upon herself to try and teach other misguided indigenous British girls to do the same.
Mom5 says
I always held in my opinion that for an American woman to convert, to marry a muslim man, she had to have all the variables that Melanie possessed at the time.
Her age, her lack of confidence in her own looks, her naivete, and of course being
pursued by someone who clearly knew he would have to put in some effort if he was going to get himself hitched quickly. She was raised by her aged grandparents. Which was also another variable.
These Muslim scum bags are predators. The truth is that they need to get hitched to secure their status in America. I tell my daughters all the time, stay away from Muslime men. Muslime men try to dress nice, they try to be so suave and debonair, they are the boys at the local Verizon store. They are all so well manicured, too much cologne, and I have watched as they swoon over the young American girls in my town.
I tell my daughters to tell their friends that they are dangerous. Do not trust them, don’t fall for their cunning ways. I tell my daughters guy friends that they are snakes,
that they are not their friends.
The Turkish Muslime men down at the gas station down the road, they sell alcohol to underage boys, I’ve watched them do it. The other day I saw a young kid with a big white truck pull up while I was getting gas, the Turkish Muslim kid serving me, ran up to the truck and handed this young white kid a little object in his hand.
The white kid shouted out his truck window, after he looked at what I thought was a small ball looking thing, to the Muslim kid….thanks, but are you trying to kill me or something.
I felt like yelling at the kid, yeah you shit for brains, but then the Muslim kid said in his broken english, “I’m good to you ha? I take care of you!” and then the white kid sped off.
I went right to a man I know in my community who has been watching this gas station. I informed him that this station, whom he originally knew was selling to minors, is STILL selling to minors, but not just herbs that kill, but beer and even other substances.
This is what the filth of Islam is bringing to American.
So schools teach that Islam is good, in our schools, and then ignorant, naive youth, engage them at local gas stations and kiosks and are lured into liking them for drugs and alcohol.
God help our futue.
Lastly, Melanie, with all the you know, all you experienced, one day, if you are up to the task, you should consider being part of the voice that helps young girls out of Islam. Thank you for your story. I am so happy that you got out safely and that
you are back on the side of your heritage, stronger and more aware!
Chubee EX Muzz says
Saxon- I was really really brainwashed by that time!
There are more like me out there, most of us are really quiet about what happened. I still have family who don’t want much to do with me because of this episode and that really hurts. The worst part was that my grandparents feared reprisals from my ex for the last 20 years of their life and I promised them that I would not be public with my story until they passed away. I can never get the years back but I can go forward. Thanks for all the kind comments!
perceptor1 says
Koran 4:34 gives men the eternal right to whack the heck out of women. Koran 18.81 gives them the right to murder them. Sharia law has no punishment for a man who beats or murders his wife.
Saxon says
muslim or not, why would anyone marry someone they’ve never met???
BLR says
wonder how many more women like Melanie are out there ! she came back from the vast muslim abyss one can hope their are many more that will follow her lead . keep the lights on for them BNi it a dark world out there
scott says
thank you melanie for bringing light to the darkness!! good luck on your journey!!
opar5 says
Outstanding! Murder, however, for apostasy is not beyond a possibility. The other option for those trapped in a marriage with a Muslim might be to emulate Lorena Bobbitt.
Deborah Revell says
All Muslim’s are “Christiniphobes.
AussieHels says
Nice to hear of a happy ending like Melanies. She was lucky that she was not born a female into a Muzturd family. Melanie can walk away without the worry of weak limp dicked savages threatening her life as it goes for women of Muzturd origin whom are too scared to leave knowing they could be murdered for leaving a life of pure Hell on Earth. It just proves that silly non Muzloid girls should think twice about “rebelling” against their folk and Western values in spite convert to Shitslam. Most will end up in very sad horrible situations which will be difficult to get out of especially if they produce Muzloid offspring.
Marlene Wilkins says
If our future daughter makes this mistake, one word from her that twitches my Maternal Instincts and the muzzie won’t have time to realize how much trouble he’s in.
I can be very nice, civilized and peaceful or I can be a worse monster than the Alien Queen in Alien vs. Predator.
If some muzloid twist ever hurts a child of mine, of any age, I’ll redefine terror for the limp-dick gynophobe.
Husband and I have NO living relatives at all–and we’ve burned a lot of time and $$ searching. Thus, our children will be Treasured, as they are a new Lineage, a new Beginning for our bloodlines.
I’ll be reasing them to understand that islam is dangerous, inimical and cancer-like, but no matter how well one tries to raise kids, impulsiveness can rear up–we were all teens ourselves, and we all know it as a Fact.
If any of my kids get snarled up in islam, I will take my children back, and plough under any dipwits stupid enough to get in the way.
This is a War, and I’ll fight it like one, especially if my kids are ever at risk and then I’ll fight like only a Mother can.
dragonfFIRE01 says
you go girl
craig sawyer says
You go girl don’t care how chubby you are and niether should you, you have your life back get out there and live it.
cat says
This must have taken place in a western civilized country because if this had happened in one of the 57 muslim hell holes, this innocent person would have been honour killed. Well done Melanie. We need to hear more positive and courageous stories such as this one. God bless Melanie and her family.
Marlene Wilkins says
Congrats on leaving the nightmare and having a good life to replace it with!! (HUG)
Beverly Schaile says
you are very lucky to still be with us…if you had gone to a Muslim country
the family would have used you as a prostitute to bring money and name to them.
Refusing to be a prostitute gets your head chopped of. Sharia law allows this.
Susan K says
Hi Melanie,
I know how you felt. I felt it also for 16 years. I lived the same experience as you except I didn’t convert. Would never do that. Although my guy was a muslim, he was not devout. I was also a prisoner in the house having no way to travel outside for two years before I left him. Loads of verbal and psychological abuse and degradation although I am a very good looking woman (I am told). It starts slowly and gets worse with time to end up full blown violence and terror and rages. When you realize the situation you are in, it’s hard to get out of because you are in a state of shock. I was lucky to have other interests and a laptop in my life. This is what saved me.
I think any guy that was raised in a muslim family will behave this way towards women,
Marlene Wilkins says
Susan…(HUG)
I’m so glad you got out without suffering some hideous fate, we all know how vicious they can be to women who ‘displease’ them (chip their fragile quasi-masculine egos).
islam, the problem is so huge just TRYING to keep up with the influx of daily atrocities is nearing the point where it’s impossible, and I’m not plugged into that many subscriptions…
But I think that says all that needs be said about islam, alongside testimony from you, Melanie and other survivors of muslim relationships.
Saxon says
Good for you, Melanie. Good bless.
Grouchy Fogie says
You are an awesome, aware young lady, Melanie,,, And God Bless you for telling your story. Regular readers here know I believe that the change in islam will come through the efforts and demands of the women. That is the ONLY way I know that it will come about.
My Prayers with you, and my Blessings !
G F
AussieHels says
I certainly hope the women do one day do make the changes as you mentioned and have the courage to fight back. Lets face it that fat ass old bag Hillary and the feminists of this world are doing jack shit to help!!
Marlene Wilkins says
Well said!! And I ditto you with what you said to Melanie also. 🙂
islam, it took us how long to get to this level of equality and being taken seriously, and now the damned islamists think they’re gonna sweep all that away and lock us up in shariah?
Not bloody happening!
BIGWOOD says
Great glad u got out without having any little devil worshipers. FUCMO.
Ex - Muslim Hass says
Good girl. I’m happy for you.
T.A. says
thank the lord
SM ISAC says
Thank you Melanie for sharing your story which I know will help many others trapped in the similar situation. Wish you much happiness. Thanks BNI for the post.
randy63ism says
What an awesome and inspiring story!